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Op-Ed: The Double Standard of Marriage and Divorce in Nigeria’s Entertainment Industry, By Mike Odeh James

The recent announcement by Nigerian music legend, Tubaba, that his marriage has come to an end sparked a heated debate on social media. While some fans expressed shock and disappointment, others were quick to label him as heartless. However, this reaction raises an important question: why are men held to a different standard when it comes to marriage and divorce?

 

A closer look at the entertainment industry reveals a striking double standard. When female celebrities like Mercy Aigbe, Funke Akindele, Ini Edo, Anita Okoye, Tiwa Savage, Kate Henshaw, and Tonto Dikeh ended their marriages, they were met with understanding, support, and even applause. Their decisions were seen as brave and justified, with many praising them for taking control of their lives.

 

However, when men like Tubaba make similar decisions, they are often vilified and shamed. The narrative surrounding their divorce is heavily emotional, with many questioning their character and morality. This double standard is not only unfair but also highlights the deep-seated societal expectations placed on men and women.

 

Feminists advocate for equal rights and opportunities for women, and rightly so. However, this advocacy should also extend to men, who are often expected to conform to traditional masculine norms. When men make decisions that challenge these norms, they should be met with the same understanding and support as women.

 

In conclusion, the reaction to Tubaba’s divorce announcement is a stark reminder of the double standard that exists in our society. It is essential that we recognize and challenge this double standard, promoting a more nuanced and equitable understanding of marriage, divorce, and relationships. By doing so, we can create a more just and compassionate society for all.

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